"WISE ARE THOSE WHO CAN STAND UP TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE THEY FAILED BECAUSE THEY DIVORCED, AND SAY , "YES, I FAILED. I FAILED TO FIND ONE MORE REASON TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT BROUGHT MORE SORROW, THAN JOY. MORE DISTRESS, THAN COMFORT. MORE ABANDONMENT, THAN SUPPORT. MORE SUSPICION THAN TRUST. YES I FAILED. I FAILED AT DISCOUNTING MY NEEDS FOREVER AND IN THIS FAILURE, I WON BACK MY SELF-RESPECT.