If you don't feel it, Flee from it. Go Where you are Celebrated, Not Merely Tolerated.

“I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.” 
Rita Mae Brown

“Do your thing and don't care if they like it.” 
Tina Fey, Bossypants

“Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn't have the time to sit around and talk about you. What's important to me is not others' opinions of me, but what's important to me is my opinion of myself.” 
C. JoyBell C.