Sometimes you have to make a big mistake to figure out how to make things right. Mistakes are painful, but they're the only way to find out who really are. I know who I am now. I know what I want.
so true as that is why some people need to hit rock bottom as the only way for some people to learn is from making a huge mistake. We should never enable anyone to avoid big mistakes as sooner or later they will do it anyways. the important thing is to be there when they do hit rock bottom and need help getting back up to face the reality and their fears as they will ask us for help once they hit rock bottom !
